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She’s All Grows Up:
Saying Goodbye to Diapers and Cribs

Posted by: Maggie

We’ve had some pretty big changes in the Keegan Gross house in the last few weeks.

First of all, Eleanor is pretty much potty trained. It’s happened kinda suddenly. She was only occasionally using the potty when she felt like it. But not with any kind of regularity. Then two weeks ago I decided to try another potty training weekend and go straight to big girl underpants. We had some successes and some accidents, but she seemed to be getting the hang of it. Since then we only put her in underpants when we are at home. No more diapers unless it’s nap time or bed time. She has accidents occasionally and needs to be reminded to use the potty. But overall she’s doing great.

We had still been sending her to school in diapers or pull-ups though until yesterday. I was telling her teacher how well she was doing at home, but that I was concerned that there would be too much going on at school for her to remember to use the potty when she needed to. Her teacher suggested we give it a try. So we did. Yesterday morning we put on our favorite Elmo panties and headed to school with a change of clothes just in case. Four hours later I picked her up and was surprised to find her in the same pants I had sent her to school in! Success! She used the potty a few times while at school and no accidents! What a big girl! So from now on she’s going to school in her big girl underpants! And maybe we’ll start attempting our weekend outings sans diapers!

The next big change is that Eleanor finally realized that she can climb out of her crib! She’s been tall enough for a long time, but only just discovered that if she throws a leg over the rail she could just pull herself up and over. And since we don’t really want her to fall and break her neck we decided to finally make the move to a toddler bed.

We were very anxious about the move. Eleanor has never been great about just going to sleep at nap time or bed time. We usually hear her in her room talking to her stuffed animals or bouncing in her bed for sometimes as long as 45 minutes after we put her to bed. I thought for sure we’d be spending weeks walking her back to her bed after she got up repeatedly until she finally tired out. And I was certain that she would never nap again.

But, Eleanor surprised us by getting out of bed only once on the first night immediately after being put in bed. We, of course, walked her right back to bed where she announce, “I not get back up again.” And she didn’t! She slept the whole night in her new bed and that’s where I found her in the morning. The same thing happened the next day at nap time. But since then she’s pretty much been going to bed and going to sleep just fine. She’s had a little trouble napping on the weekend, we’ve caught her playing in her room, but that’s not so unusual. She always has trouble napping when Josh is home. But most days she goes to sleep just fine and takes her nap like she used to. Bed time is even easier. No problems, since those first few night. She goes to sleep like she should, and she’s in her bed when I get her up in the morning.

The funniest part is that when she does wake up before we get her up, which is usually just on the weekends, she doesn’t leave her room. I think she thinks she’s not allowed to leave, which works for us. So we hear her in there playing until we go to get her.

I’ve heard from other moms that the novelty of the new bed will wear off in a few weeks and that’s when the getting up from bed repeatedly will start. I hope they’re wrong!

It really feels strange for her to be using the potty and sleeping in a real bed. She’s not so little anymore, definitely not a baby anymore. My little girl is all grows up, well not really, but it’s starting to feel that way. What a big girl she is becoming!

Tomorrow I’ll show you the photos of Eleanor’s newly decorated room!

A Disappointing Potty Training Update

Posted by: Maggie

How is potty training going?  Lets just say that it is not going, not going at all. arrrgggh.

The week following our potty training weekend I gave Eleanor a lot more naked baby time, in which she peed on the carpet several more times and never once used the potty. Whereas when we began our potty training adventure Eleanor seemed interested in using the potty, during the following week she showed no interest and really an extreme disinterest. It seemed that the more Josh and I seemed to want her to use the potty the less she wanted to. I think it has a lot to do with her very independent personality. I tried to play it cool and just do as the book said–walk her to the potty every hour and try to get her to sit on it without any pressure or cajoling. Well, she did not want to walk to the potty and when she did she wouldn’t sit on it. She instead wanted to wash her hands or sit on her bathroom stool and read a book.

So we’ve decided to once again hold off for a little while and then attempt a different technique. She starts daycare part-time next week (more on that to come), so we think we’ll wait until she has settled in there to try again. The books all say you shouldn’t attempt potty training during any big transition periods. We had hoped to get her started before beginning daycare, but since it’s not working out right now, we’ll just wait.

The truth is I don’t think I’m great at this part of the whole Mommy thing. I’m not sure I have the patience for it. Uggh. We’ll see…

Potty Training Attempt Two:
The Adventure Begins

Posted by: Maggie

If you’ll remember back about two months ago we tried potty training for the first time with not so great results. Well, this weekend we decided it was time to give it another go. Eleanor has continued to show the signs of readiness and we figured that she probably has developed that bladder control that she was lacking two months ago.

What really prompted this weekend’s attempt was that all last week Eleanor was talking about and asking to use the potty. Each day after her nap she asked to use the potty while I was changing her diaper. So I let her go pantless and diaperless and she immediately walked to the bathroom, sat on her potty, and peed! So exciting! She did this almost every day last week and then again on Saturday, so after talking it over we decided to make Sunday her first (well really second) official potty training day! Just like last time we set her free and diaperless and asked her to tell us when she needed to use the potty and then took her to sit on it once every hour. We had one successful potty use and one pee on the carpet. Aside from that she didn’t seem to need to go except when she was napping or eating when, of course, she had a diaper on.

Monday was not as successful. I continued the previous day’s pantless and diaperless policy except while eating and napping. We had two carpet pees, one bathroom floor pee, but no potty pees. I think that she doesn’t quite have the patience to sit and wait to pee nor does she want to stop whatever she is doing to walk herself over to the potty when she has to go. At least she wants to help me clean up. After every accident she runs into the bathroom and grabs a bunch of toilet paper which she uses to help, “keen up!”

I’m determined to continue our potty training and make it work. I really do think she is ready and the timing is right for us. Hopefully we’ll have more success over the next week and then we can move her to pull-ups and eventually big girl underpants! It’s terribly exciting to have such a big girl ready to reach such a big step! And lord almighty am I ever sick of diapers!

Wish us luck! And if you have any potty training tips, please comment, we’d love to hear them!

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